If he were alive today, InduDada would be over 100 years old.
He was a man who understood the value of family. Everything that he had ever achieved the credit was always given to his family. Being the eldest of 8, he had the utmost respect for his siblings and parents.
He was a man who understood the value of money and hard work. He spent long hours working at a mill, often riding his bike to work. He always followed my grandmother around their 3 room home and turned off every light and fan in the home that was unused. My grandmother always encouraging him to be even more generous in all aspects. They were different in so many ways yet their relationship of an arranged marriage found its path.
He was a man who understood the value of a good education. He was so proud of his entire extended family’s achievements. He was a man with simple vices and never hid his failings. In fact, he was wise to learn from them.
Daily he would walk to the temple, gave to those in need at Ram Roti and enjoyed his afternoons playing cards. He loved spending time with his neighborhood friends. He would often come to life in a different way as he laughed and connected with his friends.
It was an honor for me to have had so many of these deep yet light conversations with him. They gave me a perspective of him and a deeper sense of self. My visits to India were always enriched with our moments together.
He was a man who appreciated his opportunity in the USA. He helped raise his grandchildren alongside my grandmother with joy. He laughed out loud to Three’s Stooges and loved the Price is Right. Language barriers did not impact his love for the culture of the USA, he embraced the 5 years he had spent here.
His last years were spent battling esophageal cancer and I did not have the opportunity to visit him that last year. It was difficult for me to accept the loss but I am so very fortunate to have had time with him over a number of years.
Dada (grandfather), the family you love has grown and valued education beyond your expectations. You were the first father I ever knew and certainly were beyond my expectations. Your legacy is priceless.
I can still picture him, enjoying a bowl of ice cream or watching a good movie or television show. Spend time enjoying simple vices with your loved ones and keep his spirit alive.
My beloved Grandfather ,InduDada, a man with simple vices.